Ten Girl Secrets Revealed!

Sure women are the fairer sex, but that doesn't mean they're all sugar and no spice.

As a member of this mysterious team (and at the risk of being banned), I have the inside scoop on the strange and mischievous things women do and the reasons they do it. Just be warned: these tips are meant to inform and aren't pretty. Below are our top 10 best-kept secrets, tricks and techniques for keeping you around (or, in this case, totally alienating you).

1. We never "accidentally" leave our underwear at your apartment.
Aside from the stray hair tie here and there, no woman ever "forgets" to put on her panties before she leaves the next morning. Unless you're about to get busted by your parents/girlfriend/priest and little Miss Booty Call must crawl out of a second story window, that bra lying innocently under your bed was left there on purpose. We like planting things in your home because we want you to think of us, but also because our dirty panties are like little landmines that we hope the "other woman" will step on then freak out and leave you forever.

2. We like to Google you, but never mention our discoveries.
It gets worse: we will then ask leading questions that pertain to what we found as a way to tease out some dark, dirty secret. You see, we respect your privacy, which is why we would never come clean and tell you that we know about the time you tried out for Who Wants to Be a Millionaire. We want you to tell us because honesty is important.

3. We are talented when it comes to acting.
Think about the number of times you've brought your girlfriend to orgasm. Now take that number and minus the times you thought she was faking. Take THAT number and divide it by 1000. That is the number of times she actually came. I'm really, really sorry. We like having sex with you, but not when it cuts into Conan.

4. We will go to great lengths to find out what your ex-girlfriend looked like.
We'll begin with an image search. Then we'll graduate to Webshots, class pictures from her ten-year high school reunion, Flickr.com and a hazy group picture taken in a bar and posted on someone's Myspace. We will then judge her, call our friends and send them a link so they too may judge her. The consensus will always be that the current girlfriend (us) is way prettier than former girlfriend (fat, ugly hag).

5. We booty call ex boyfriends and old flings for sex to keep our numbers down.
Doing so helps us from feeling like sluts. But that doesn't mean when you ask how many guys we have slept with, we won't lie through our teeth. Add ten to the number we give you and it's still too low.

6. We are way more insecure about our jobs, intellect and education than our looks.
But that only applies if we're more attractive than you; if you're more attractive we're insecure about our looks in addition to our jobs, intellect and education. If we're hot and make more money than you, tough shit, you'll never hold the remote.

7. We count the condoms under the sink.
But you already knew that, which is why we're well aware that it's a decoy box. We count that one too. You weren't prepared for that one were you?

8. We equate sex with love.
We think that if we fuck you hard enough, we'll knock something loose and you'll fall in love. This is why we have sex with you first and expect a commitment later. This never works, yet we will lie and tell you that we're only interested in having fun. We don't want to have fun; we want a boyfriend.

9. We lie to you about who we are with.
More than once. There is fairly high chance that a woman has lied about having a date to make you jealous, but in essence, it isn't really lying because although she spent the evening alone at home eating chocolate and watching old episodes of Melrose Place, she did have plans, with someone, of an ambiguous gender, and food and beverages could have been consumed had she not cancelled, hypothetically. Ok, please don't judge us.

10. We are evil.
We are evil for three days before our periods. PMS is a legitimate condition and now that a drug for PMDD is available, we all have that too. Some of us cry as a result of PMS, sometimes we need to talk about our relationship and why you won't just commit, while we're crying, of course. We feel fat during this time and we hate you. Your job is easy: Just try not to piss us off more. We sincerely believe that you enjoy seeing us in pain.

Sadly, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Who knows, maybe now that we've been exposed the madness will stop. But probably not.

Men's top sex secrets revealed!

According to Fox News, here are 10 things that you didn't know about men and sex:

1. Trapped Sperm
Not all sperm go racing for the egg at once. Once sperm has been deposited into the vaginal canal, some of them are temporarily trapped in a semen coagulate or clot. Eventually, they are decoagulated by enzymes, which set them free to swim about a female''s reproductive system. This clotting, according to scientists, is meant to pace the release of sperm into the uterus, increasing the chance that one of these sperms will reach the egg and fertilise it.

2. Oxytocin affects males too
It is believed that oxytocin affects females during sex (and breast-feeding). But this cuddle hormone, released by both sexes during intimacy, is also found to influence males. Research from Switzerland found that oxytocin is associated with increased feelings of trust in males.

3. High testosterone = Less sex
While higher testosterone levels is typically considered a good thing for men when it comes to their sex drive, still researchers continually found that males with higher testosterone levels marry less often, are more abusive in their marriages and divorce more regularly. In fact, married men see more action than single men.

4. Death during sex has a prototype
While examining the incidence of death during sex, a 1975 study discovered a unique pattern in males: the "deceased is usually married; he is not with a spouse and in unfamiliar surroundings," and death usually occurs after "a big meal with alcohol." Another study in 1989 found further evidence supporting the extramarital sex bit. Fourteen of the 20 cases of "la mort d''amour," or coital death, happened during an affair.

5. Orgasm ... or lack of ... may prevent breast cancer in males
A study in Greece found evidence that the frequency of adult orgasms may have an impact on the incidence of breast cancer in men. In fact, it was also revealed that males with breast cancer had experienced fewer orgasms on average than men without the disease.

6. You can tell a guy's size by his fingers
A University of Liverpool research cited that if a man''s ring fingers are longer than his index fingers, this means there were healthy testosterone levels in the womb. If the ring fingers are the same size or smaller than the index fingers, then the male received lower levels of testosterone, implying that one can estimate the length of his organ by the length of the ring finger.

7. Men fall in love faster than women
It's not the women, but men, who get out of control after a glimpse of the right attractive face and fall head over heels in love immediately, claimed love researcher Dr. Helen Fisher.

8. Family affects testosterone
As a man becomes increasingly attached to his family, his testosterone level goes down, according to a 2001 Mayo Clinic study. Particularly, fathers experience a significant decline in levels of testosterone with the birth of his child, especially when he holds the baby.

9. Can a bowel movement make for bliss?
In a 2002 study, it was mentioned that a male had a history of orgasmic-like feelings after going to the bathroom. After he answered nature's call, his body went through the rest of the male sexual response cycle. His pulse rate increased as he reached climactic state, followed by relaxation, then extreme fatigue.

10. Males like 'unusual' sex
Men have a 20 to 1 likeliness against women to practice an "unusual" and often socially unacceptable or illegal behavior, for example exhibitionism.

Cool Comic

Here's a comic I've just received through email from a friend. Hey, who says the topic of love must be serious.


Oops! Look like the quality of this comic turn out poor in Blogger. Please click on the comic to get a clearer copy. Thanks!

Why do We Always Hurt The Ones We Love

Here we go again,
Hurting each other for no reason
Wondering why we keep committing the same mistakes.
Sometimes I'm feeling
That it's more than just illusion
Tell me why we keep pretending
Are we so scared of give and take?
Ohh...

CHORUS:
Why do we always hurt the ones we love?
(Why?)
Just when it seems we've finally made it through
Why can't we fly between the eagle and the dove?
Why do we always hurt the ones we love?

BRIDGE:
When you cry, the tears were falling like raindrops
From my eyes...why do we do hurt each other?
Tell me why we shouldn't try, are there some things we didin't share?
Why do I see you walking out right w/ me,
I see you standing here?

-INSTRUMENTAL-

Tell me why... do we hurt the ones we love? (Why?)
When we've finally made it through why can't we fly between the eagle and the dove?
Why do we always hurt the ones we love...ohh...

Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

Found this article and I can't help but to include it in my blog because I know some of us may need to read it. So, for the benefits of them, and maybe even you, here's the article. To be fair to the original author, I've to include the author's name.

By Dating expert April Masini Special to Yahoo! Personals

Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants? Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.

First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting -- have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on." Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.

Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way. What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.

To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.

It works like this:

Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation. You are in a position of weakness and you are perceived as weak. Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and it's outcome. Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong, and exciting. More, they are perceived as being unworthy and as lacking value.
Translation: Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value... it's human nature.

The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How? He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is. He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him. More, his attitude is, yeah, I'd like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK -- I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.

An Eventful Day

Yesterday was an eventful day for me.

It started with a friend, CYM. He had his gallstones removed. This is considered a minor surgery considered today's advanced medical technology. What the doctor did was to cut a few incisions, then insert a tiny camera (For looking around) and a vacuum tube to suck out the stones.

Fairly minor and safe. But CYM died due to complications from this surgery. Somehow, a few hours after his surgery, he complained of heart palpitations and difficulty in breathing. The doctor noticed that his blood pressure was dropping and blood sugar level highly levitated.

Another surgery was performed because the doctor suspected internal bleeding as the cause of his dropping blood pressure. Sure enough, he detected my friend's liver was slowly bleeding. A majority of his veins from his liver were slowly bleeding.

Later, CYM's kidneys started to fail due to lack of blood flowing to the kidney. Then failed totally and the doctor had to order dialysis.

Somehow, to cut the story short, he died within hours later. I'm so sorry for his entire family. Especially his frail mother whom his family members said did not know how to break the sad news to. I just hope his mom would take the news calmly.

Yesterday too saw another friend,LSF, a girl, entered a mental asylum due to double personality. As her old self, she would be pleasant and gentle. Once another personality take over, she would become very aggressive and violent. She would even beat up her boss! Something in the fantasy of some of us. Right?

All's not that bad when I stumbled upon a long lost friend, YYS. At the same hospital where my first friend had his surgery. His wife bore him a baby girl. His second child. Both girls.

And while in the hospital too, I've received another news of yet another friend who delivered a baby boy this time, at another hospital. So yesterday was an eventful day for me.

Strangulated Feeling, the poem, now, the Video!

A few posts below, or here, I posted that The Best Websites Around sent me a poem via email, of a physically disabled friend, who was in love with a girl, but whom dare not confess his love for her.

I've promised to make a video out of the poem and here it is, the poem titled a Strangulation Feeling.

Being physically challenged is not a sin. They have their rights too, and a place for living. And that includes love. They have a right to love and be loved. Rather to suffer in silence, its better to express your love. Yeah, the fear of losing her is great. Its better to not have her love than entirely not have her as a friend anymore, you may reason. At least, you'll still be a ble to see her from time to time.

But don't you think if you continue to live like this, you will suffer even more? The pain of yearning for someone but not being able to have them? To cut the pain short, confess. If she accept, its your dream come true. If not, move on. Its easier to handle than you think.

But then, its only my humble opinion. Do what you deem best for yourself.

Meanwhile, enjoy the video.


Strangulated Feeling - Watch more funny videos here

If You Love Someone . . .

Received this e-mail from a friend, Kevin. Thanks, bud! Now, I've something for my blog :)

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous…
then it’s not love…it’s – Infatuation

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because
others think that you shouldn’t..then it’s not love…it’s – Compromise

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live without his touch…
then it’s not love…it’s – Lust

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Inferiority Complex

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings…
then it’s not love… it’s – Charity

If you love someone because you share every thing with him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Friendship

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable, and you cry for him, that's -LOVE!

Maxence, a young French singer

Introducing....Maxence, a talented singer from Paris, and is only 13 years of age. He was 12 when he sang the song (Please view embedded video).

The song is written by Anthony Johnson from UK. I love to expose talented people to encourage them to perform even better and better. Here's the video. Enjoy! Translated lyrics at the bottom of video.



V1:
Ooh, I sit here all alone
No-one to hear my distress
I feel so abandoned

And you, do you ever feel it too?
The innocence and recklessness
Give way to the suffering

CHORUS:
Another day, another night
I'll wait forever
Until you come here

V2:
Yesterday, to me, seems so far away
All those games we played
Seem to fade awy

MIDDLE PART:
I cling to my memories
That fill my heart
And help me to cope
There is too much love I have to share
then I see that nobody is there
Just my thoughts of the past
the fear visits me once again

CHORUS:
Another day, another night
I'll wait forever
Until you come here

ENGLISH PART:
I just wait here every day
I just wait here every night
There's no sense in what I do
I just sit and wait for you
To take me home

Take me home
Take me home
Take me home

Strangulated Feeling

The Best Websites Around messaged me and this is what she wrote:-

Hi, I would like to submit a love poem to you so that you can post it on your site. The resembles your blogpost "Life is short" to some extent. Let me know how can i send the poem to you. Thanx for your nice blog. Keep it up.

Of course I'll post it on my blog if its good. A day later, I received an email from her. This is the content of the email:-

Dear Friend,

The Poem that I want to submit is written by close friend who doesn't want to disclose his name. He is actually Physically disable & is in love. So he has written the poem.

The poem is about a Secret Feeling which he can't express to his near & dear ones and even to my beloved. The Poem is as follows:

STRANGULATED FEELING

A secret feeling I can’t express,

Without expressing I can’t repress

To express it is really hard

While repressing it- I’ve become a bard.

Wanna express my love to her all the time

But it’s so hard to express even a single time.

Don’t know the way to vent my love

The only hope is God above.

There is no medium, no outlet

To call my love for a simple date,

Can’t say my love to my love,

Though she is gentle like a dove.

Social bounds- so hard to break

So many barriers- tough nut to crack

Circumstances- never went my way

Could see the hope just fading away

All because I have no right

For I’m disable, I have no might.

I'm sorry for your disabled friend. I don't know what disability he suffers. But I feel he should not look down on himself merely because he is physically challenged.

Physically challenged people have rights to love and to be loved, to make friends and have a normal social life. In order for people to accept us, we must first accept ourselves. In order for people to love us, we must also firstly love ourselves.

As I've promised, I'll make a video out of this poem. Hope your friend will love it. Stay tuned!
Please give me some time to make the video. I want to make this video a good one!

Marie Antoinette Award

Tripzibit presented me with the Marie Antoinette Award. This is his second award to me. How sweet! Thanks again!

“Queen Marie Antoinette is the epitome of a real, fun, fearless woman who is never afraid of getting what she wants”

Its my honour to pass this award to:-

Hello Kitty Gifts, , First Time, Traders' Hub, Pyro Electro, Money Making Tips

Thanks for being my top five Entrecard droppers!

Life Is Short

Okay, this touching mail was sent to me by my cousin brother. Its hard to resist not to post it over here. Love can be great. Love can be blind. And this is love at its best!

Beautiful Lesson !!!!!!!!

The girl in the picture is Katie Kirkpatrick, she is 21 . Next to her, her fiancé, Nick, 23.
The picture was taken shortly before their wedding ceremony, held on January 11, 2005 in the US .
Katie has terminal cancer and spend hours a day receiving medications.
In the picture, Nick is waiting for her on one of the many sessions of chemo to end.


In spite of all the pain, organ failures, and morphine shots, Katie is going along with her wedding and took care
of every detail. The dress had to be adjusted a few times due to her constant weight loss.



An unusual accessory at the party was the oxygen tube that Katie used throughout the ceremony and reception as well.
The other couple in the picture are Nick's parents. Excited to see their son marrying his high school sweetheart.



At the reception, Katie had to take a few rests.The pain do not let her to be standing up for long periods.



Katie died five days after her wedding day. Watching a woman so ill and weak getting married and with a smile on her face makes us think..... Happiness is reachable, no matter how long it last. We should stop making our lives complicated.

Life is short Break the rules forgive quickly kiss passionately, love truly laugh constantly And never stop smiling no matter how strange life is Life is not always the party we expected to be but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

What About love...

I've been lonely
I've been waiting for you
I'm pretending and that's all I can do
The love I'm sending
Ain't making it through to your heart
You've been hiding, never letting it show
Always trying to keep it under control
You got it down and you're well
On the way to the top
But there's something that you forgot

What about love
Don't you want someone to care about you
What about love
Don't let it slip away
What about love
I only want to share it with you
You might need it someday

I cant tell you what you're feeling inside
I cant sell you what you don't want to buy
Somethings missing and you got to
Look back on your life
You know something here just ain't right

What about love
Don't you want someone to care about you
What about love
Don't let it slip away
What about love
I only want to share it with you
What about love
Don't you want someone to care about you
What about love
Don't let it slip away
What about love
I only want to share it with you

...and the video that caused all the ordeal....Million Dollar Lesson

My ordeal didn't actually end after I got hold of a new laptop and modem. I stubbornly upload the 'cursed' video again to Metacafe.

After the fifth or six try did I manage to successfully uploaded the entire video to Metacafe as the internet connection kept disconnected by its own. Imagine the frustration of having to wait for 15 mins (upload speed was so slowww...zZzzZZ) and nearly halfway through, suddenly the internet was disconnected! Not once but up to five or six times!

At long last, my video was uploaded and a the following day, my internet connection went completely dead! I thought it could be the modem, so I kept resetting the modem. Nah, it was working fine. It could be the wireless router. Nah, I directly connected the broadband jack top my laptop. Still no signal. Lastly, after fumbling, through trial and errors for a few hours, I connected the phone line to a phone. No dial tone. So, my line was dead! The lightning killed it too. Only, it died a slow death.

A quick call to the telephone provider solved all the problems, albeit a few days later. My schedule was tight so I delayed calling the provider. And they arrived the next day after my call.

Ah, so, all's well for now. Here's the video that caused me all the trouble and ordeal. With time, I hope to polish up on my skills. While watching this video, do me a favor guys. Please try not to fall asleep ;)


Million Dollar Lesson - The best bloopers are here

Sorry For My Disappearing Act...

Especially to all my Entrecard friends who consistently dropped by my blogs to drop their cards. Yeah, I've been missing for a week. You know, I love to make videos. Just when I've made a video, chose the right audio, pictures and story line (Motivational Video), and was in the process of uploading it to the web (Metacafe), then the rain starts. Just when the video was successfully uploaded and was awaiting confirmation, the sound of thunders could be heard far over the horizon.

Patiently, I waited for the confirmation message when suddenly, a deafening claps of thunder roared, the sound so near, I thought I was struck by lightning in my very own bedroom. Luckily, God didn't want me to be with him in Heaven so soon (He must have feared that I would cause havoc in Heaven :) But he didn't spared my modem. And PC. So, I've lost both my PC and modem to Mother Nature.

Now , I've got hold of another PC, how, you may ask, that's easy. I enter a shop, and asked for a new PC, and then PAY UP! That's all. That's real easy right? . Poor me already so poor. Now, I'm made poorer by Mother Nature. On the bright side, I'm still able to bash away at the keypads. The lightning didn't get to me. If it did, it won't be that easy to replace, my delicate body against lightning. Life must go on.

"Let's Be Friends" Award

The "Let's Be Friends" Award represents:

These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers. Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award.

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So happy that Tripzibit chose me as one of the recipients of this 'award'. Thanks a million !
Lets see...I'd like to pass this award to the following people :-

Sushi Freak, Bill, Ronald, Dynamics, One Creative Queen, Dorothy L, J2Kfm, Charly

I Think I'm Falling

Speaking of randomness, I was browsing youtube when a video caught my eyes. This music video was 'recommended' to me by Youtube. This is one of their features, to recommend videos to you based on your browsing habits. And this video was recommended to me.
I haven't heard of this song b4 this, and hey, this is interesting...so, I decide to share it here. Enjoy!

The Invitation, the poem...

I received a message from Sushi Freak (link) the other day.

"...wanted to share something with you that you may enjoy.

This is my favorite love poem. It speaks to your posts on crushes and unreturned love and I think you will like it."

Well, nobody send me a poem before. Its too good for me to enjoy myself, so I'd decided to share it with all of you out there. Enjoy! And, thanks for visiting my blog !!!

The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

Sushi Freak includes the following link to the original author of the poem.

http://www.oriahmountaindreamer.com/

Having a Crush?

Crushes can turn up at any time and reduce you to a nervous wreck. Here's how to cope.

Crushes are addictive - they make life exciting, and give you hope and focus. This is why we let ourselves make the same mistakes over and over again, it is the thrill of the chase, except it is often more of a loiter!

The Symptoms:

• You love them yet you don't even know them;
• All you can think about is them and what if...;
• You've planned your whole future;
• You follow them round like a puppy on your lunch break;
• You go red whenever you see them;
• You lose the power of speech and co-ordination in their presence;
• Butterflies in your stomach;
• Pounding heart;
• You stammer/stutter something like "have you got the time?" at them;
• You imagine hours of conversations with them.

How to cope

Try not to tie yourself up in knots about this - you've set yourself up with a fantasy relationship, but that's all. The emotions feeding this fantasy can seem very real, but the advantage is you don't have to deal with the actual person. It's like a sexual encounter without the real-life hassles.

It is fairly unlikely to turn into reality as often crushes are formed on the unobtainable; they may be attached, a famous film star or totally unsuitable. You have to accept that this romance will never exist outside of your own head. Often, just confiding in someone you trust will help you get things in perspective.

If things get too intense try to limit your time spent in their company. In time, you'll get a grip on this fantasy, and see it as a learning experience about some powerful emotions. If anything, it'll work in your favour when it comes to dealing with real life, realistic relationships.

Unobtainable crushes can hurt like hell - the object of your affection may walk past like you don't even exist or, perhaps worse, notice your drooling and laugh about you with all their mates. If this happens, deal with the rejection - treat yourself, see your mates or curl up at home with a DVD of your choice.

On the practical side, try to fill the time you would otherwise spend thinking about your crush. Plan your day. Promise yourself some crush-free time, and set up a reward afterwards. Once you've defined the boundaries, a crush like this can be a positive experience. One that can set you up to deal with the emotional side of future, more realistic relationships.

Journey's After All These Years

This song is awesome.....And I can't help but to say..."Wow!" This is awesome stuff!

Cat And Mouse...

The first time I view this video, my reaction was like..."Awww.................................."
Its not possible, but it is, this video is the proof! Please tell me what you think!


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Don't Look Away: A Child Abuse Awareness Video

*I happened to stumble upon this vide on youtube, was deeply touched, and decides to post it here for the benefits of all the children of the world, particularly those who were abused and felt unloved. I encourage those who felt the same way to also highlight this video in their blogs to spread the message of love to those innocent victims. And those adults that abuse children to please stop it. 

**For The Children**

For all the children who've lost their innocence...
Because of unthinkable cruelty and ignorance.

For all the little ones who cannot sleep...
Because of the horrible secrets they have to keep.

For all the ones who find it hard to eat...
When their angel face has been broken and beat.

For the tears that fall steadily when nobody sees...
And the child in the corner hugging her knees.

For the infants who are beaten before they can talk.
For the babies who know pain before they can walk.

For all the smiles that have been stolen away...
For all the children who are afraid to play.

For the adults who carry around their childhood bruises...
And the many abusers with their heartless excuses.

For anyone who acts out to suppress the grief.
For the ones who damage themselves to find relief.

For the ones who only want love and receive hate.
For the ones who suffer when the hour is late.

For every punch, bite, or burn...
And everytime a child "has to learn..."

For the sparkle of hope in a child's bruised eye...
When he looks up at the sky and feels he can fly.

For every hour, for every lie...
For every heartfelt plead or cry...

For all the blind eyes that pass them by...
For every young heart that has to die...

I pray for the pain to be forever a forgotten nightmare.
I pray that every child can be safe, and without a care.
I hope you find courage through everything life brings you...
And I mourn those who've died before the world even knew.

There is no amount that can add up to what these lives are worth...
May God condemn the ones who injure his angels on Earth.

Maria Mena-I Miss You Love