tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4108039770111503072024-03-13T19:06:18.125-07:00Loving You...Everything On LoveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-61884475553048349092011-05-05T17:10:00.000-07:002011-05-05T17:12:35.558-07:00Survey: Not all young men want more sex<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn203/sempreserena/loving-couple.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 425px; height: 282px;" src="http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn203/sempreserena/loving-couple.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />Unbelievable as it may sound, not all young men want more sex.<br /><br />According to a survey on Australian men, 12 per cent between the ages of 16 and 24 said they wanted less sex - the highest proportion of any age group.<br /><br />"Although it's a minority, it's still interesting that it's more of them (than any other age group), which is not that sort of myth, boys not getting enough sex and dying to get it," Dr Juliet Richters, Associate Professor in Sexual Health, University of New South Wales, told Reuters.<br /><br />Dr Richters and a team of researchers from around Australia surveyed some 4,300 heterosexual men and 4,400 women between the ages of 16 and 64. She said another survey five years ago showed similar results.<br /><br />Only 31 per cent of men in that age group said they wanted more sex, the lowest of any other age group as well.<br /><br />"It may well be that they are being overwhelmed by girls of much the same age who are madly in love and very keen," she said. "It also takes men of that age about a year or longer to commit to a relationship."<br /><br />More predictably, the survey found that 57 per cent of men between 35 and 44 wanted more sex compared with only 28 per cent of women, while 14 per cent of women said they wanted less.<br /><br />Half of men aged 55 to 64 wanted more sex, while only 27 per cent of women in the same age group felt the same.<br /><br /><em>Source: Agencies<br />Published May 5 2011</em>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-30249080322006482542011-05-01T19:11:00.000-07:002011-05-01T19:12:16.916-07:00Another video called What A Girls Want To Hear...<div style="background:#000000;width:540px;height:334px"><embed flashvars="playerVars=showStats=yes|autoPlay=no|videoTitle=What a Girl Wants to Hear" src="http://www.metacafe.com/fplayer/6332725/what_a_girl_wants_to_hear.swf" wmode="transparent" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" name="Metacafe_6332725" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" height="334" width="540"></embed></div><div style="font-size:12px;"><a href="http://www.metacafe.com/watch/6332725/what_a_girl_wants_to_hear/">What a Girl Wants to Hear</a> - <a href="http://www.metacafe.com/">More amazing video clips are a click away</a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-51271053166306803252010-12-25T02:04:00.000-08:002010-12-25T02:05:23.821-08:00Why you should have sex everydayHeard that song called Sexual Healing?<br />It's not just a metaphor. Sex can actually heal. It can heal your body and mind and also prevent lots of diseases. <p>Some say it's the first medicine ever known to man and it should be administered daily. Sounds too good to be true? Let's discover the five reasons to have sex each day.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Great form of exercise</strong> </span><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/2009/11/22_31/sexjog.jpg" align="right" border="0" /><br />Making love is a form of physical activity. During intercourse, the physiological changes in your body are consistent with a workout. You must have noticed that the respiratory rate rises, which means you get tired. Hence, you burn calories.<br /><br />If you have sex three times a week for 15 minutes you'll burn about 7.500 calories in a year.<br /><br />That's the equivalent of jogging 120km! Heavy breathing raises the amount of oxygen in your cells, and the testosterone produced during sex keeps your bones and muscles strong.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Pain relief</strong> </span><br />The "Honey, not today, I have a headache" cannot be an excuse any more.<br /><br />During sex, both male and female bodies produce endorphins, hormones that act as weak painkillers.<br /><br />A study conducted by reknowned sex theraphist Gina Ogden showed that during sexual stimulation and especially during orgasm, we don't feel pain.<br /><br />If she finds another excuse, remind her that sex is good for her entire reproductive system, because it trains the PC muscle, which keeps the reproductive organs in shape.<br /><br />In women, sex can also increase fertility, postpone the menopause and relieve PMS symptoms.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Prostate protection</strong><br /></span>Most of the fluid you ejaculate is secreted by the prostate gland. If you stop ejaculating, the fluid stays in the gland, which tends to swell, causing lots of problems.<br /><br />Regular ejaculation will wash those fluids out and ensure the well being of your prostate until old age. Problems may also occur when you suddenly change the frequency of ejaculations.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Prevents ED</span><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/2009/11/22_31/sexhead.jpg" align="right" border="0" /><br /></strong>Fifty per cent of men older than 40 suffer from erectile dysfunctions and all young men fear the moment when they won't be able to get it up any more. The best medicine against impotence is...sex.<br /><br />An erection keeps the blood flowing through your penile arteries, so the tissue stays healthy. Plus, doctors compare an erection to an athletic reflex: the more you train the more capable you are to perform.</p> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Stress relief</strong> </span><br />It's a scientific fact: sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels.<br /><br />During sex your body produces dopamine, a substance that fights stress hormones, endorphins, aka "happiness hormones" and oxytocin, a desire-enhancing hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.<br /><em>-timesofindia.indiatimes.com</em>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-64258615315035006732010-12-10T15:33:00.000-08:002010-12-10T15:35:43.211-08:00Top Ten Types Of Men Women Ned To Stay Away From<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: 2; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Georgia,Cambria,Times,'Times New Roman',serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">10. Men Who Are Always Pissing On Everything:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">You know the type; for him nothing you do is good enough. You’re too stupid, you’re too fat, you’re too mouthy. Well, the truth is the guy is an idiot trained from birth from his Neanderthal dad to piss all over you and everything you do. Avoid him like you would a pounding headache.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Always-Pissing-On-Everything.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9722" title="Men Who Are Always Pissing On Everything" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Always-Pissing-On-Everything.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="400" width="300" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Here are top ten tips for women to avoid ten types of men while starting new relationship.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><span id="more-9721" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">9. Men Who Are Damaged and Like It:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">He’s the guy that seems so sensitive and caring when you first meet. He’s able to share with you the heartbreak of a broken relationship. You only find out after a few more encounters that he’s still nursing a broken heart from the relationship he had with someone over ten years ago.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">You slowly realize that he’s not so much heartbroken but already committed to never caring about someone again. No matter how much time you spend together, you can never get through. Face it, you never will. The padding around his heart (and his skull) is so thick a neutron bomb won’t pierce through it. So give up and get going. He’s like a drippy faucet that slowly wears you down with false hope until you just want to smash it.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Damaged-and-Like-It.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9723" title="Men Who Are Damaged and Like It" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Damaged-and-Like-It.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="196" width="301" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">8. Men Who Love Sports Way Too Much:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">There’s a fine line between a great guy who loves sports and the raging maniac that loves sports way too much. How can you love sports TOO much? men would ask in befuddlement. For most women, it’s obvious. A guy loves sport too much when they would rather watch a game than spend time with you.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">I realize that ALL men fall into this category after several months of knowing you, but they will occasionally submit their whipped butts to taking you out or holding your purse as you shop, just to stop your fussing. But the sport fanatic won’t care that the house is falling apart, that the baby is crying or that you haven’t been out of the house in 4 months. All he’ll want is a beer, a TV and “some peace”. They are hard to tell apart from the normal healthy male but look out for the signs of obsession, or you’ll be stuck watching every lame game the sports channel has to offer and feeding his burping buddies as your friends go out to dinner and to see the hottest new movie every weekend.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Love-Sports-Way-Too-Much.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9724" title="Men Who Love Sports Way Too Much" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Love-Sports-Way-Too-Much.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="224" width="300" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">7. Men Who Thinks He Knows You:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">These are the guys who think they are Freud. They spend all their time thinking and little time actually doing anything constructive. They have put a big label on you after one date and a night of conversation.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">He’s the guy who sits there watching you, with that stupid smug “I knew it” look on his hound dog face. He’s clearly thinking that by putting a label on you, he has you all figured out and knows just what to do to fix you. He looks at you as if you were some broken piece of pottery he’s going to glue back together. What’s sad is that he still can’t figure out how to get someone to actually like him, so how is he going to fix you?</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Thinks-He-Knows-You.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9725" title="Men Who Thinks He Knows You" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Thinks-He-Knows-You.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="296" width="300" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">6. Men Who Are Prettier Than You:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">It’s one thing to date a sexy honey who looks like Brad Pitt, it’s quite another story to be with someone who makes you feel like a manly cow just by standing next to him. You know the type, don’t you? He’s the “metro man” who spends more time fluffing his hair just so and takes more time doing it than you would spend painting a barn door.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Ladies, the secret to feeling pretty and feminine is to never date a man that’s more beautiful than you and more delicate than you. So stop feeling like the turd that’s drying out in the sun, and dump the whiny narcissist.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Prettier-Than-You.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9726" title="Men Who Are Prettier Than You" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Prettier-Than-You.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="227" width="300" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">5. Men Who Think They Are Better Than You:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Have you met him? He’s all about feeling superior. Nobody is good enough for him. He has a laser sharp tongue and can shred anything in sight until it lies in tatters in front of him.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">This cold dead fish is unable to break into a smile for fear of splitting his face. He simply takes comfort in feeling that he is better than everybody else. After spending enough time with this guy, you will grow to despise the human race as he does, and crawl around feeling unworthy. Throw him away like you would a mold-filled potato.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Think-They-Are-Better-Than-You.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9727" title="Men Who Think They Are Better Than You" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Think-They-Are-Better-Than-You.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="200" width="302" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">4. Men Who Are Way Too Paranoid:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Something about these green-eyed goblins drives them to think you are cheating, even when you are with them.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">They are the ones who seem so confident at first, flirting with you and attracted to your ability to flirt back. You date them and find they really don’t like your clothes (too revealing), your car (too flashy), your friends (sluts), your family (too nosy), your job (too demanding), until you wake up one day to find the only thing you have left in your life is a miserable paranoid weird violent man who can’t stand you out of his sight but can’t stand the sight of you. He needs you to have nothing in your life but him, and you will have nothing unless you wake up and get out.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Way-Too-Paranoid.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-9728" title="Men Who Are Way Too Paranoid" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Way-Too-Paranoid-600x405.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="203" width="301" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">3. Men Who Refuse to Grow Up:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Well, my opinionated wife says that if you need to avoid all men who are children, there would be no men to date. Haha. Not funny.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">I mean other than the normal guy who wants to have his ego stroked constantly and only do what he wants to do , there are those guys who really are babies. Selfish, spoiled, useless little boys who don’t understand the concept of responsibility or self-respect.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">These men are the ones who can’t keep a job, who blame everyone else for their own stupidity and laziness, who are constantly outraged that the world is not giving them the respect they deserve. Clueless, they never realize that they are in fact, getting the respect they truly deserve. Hanging around with this type of loser is like having 10 screaming kids hanging on your legs, asking for ice cream when you can’t pay for bread. Lock the doors, throw away his book of excuses and get a spine. Avoid him like you would a …blood sucking leech.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Refuse-to-Grow-Up.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9729" title="Men Who Refuse to Grow Up" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Refuse-to-Grow-Up.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="300" width="300" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">2. Men Who Think Only With Their Sticks:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Well, as we well know, the streets to the courthouse are littered with broken marriages caused by men who think with their sticks and not their brains. They see something they want to poke and it does not matter if they have Halle Berry, Christy Brinkley or Pam Anderson, and their 2 kids, 3 dogs, and 4 fishes waiting at home. These men will do what they know they shouldn’t do, go get the forbidden poke.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">It does not matter that you are the hottest thing since freshly baked pie, a man like this is going to give you a few diseases and mess up publicly right when you are being voted “Happiest Couple” at the Lodge. You know he’s the type to cheat as that’s how you got him from his first wife. Know that you got a weasel in your arms, and throw him away before he puts you on the front pages of the daily newspaper for murder.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Think-Only-With-Their-Sticks.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9730" title="Men Who Think Only With Their Sticks" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Think-Only-With-Their-Sticks.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="198" width="298" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; text-align: justify;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold;">1. Men Who Are Cruel:</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Simply put, there are certain men who are monsters hiding behind a thin veneer of charm and sanity.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">There is nothing in the world as ugly or as damaging as a cruel man. For some reason, there are men out there who take only joy in seeing someone in pain (I don’t mean like in a dull headache kind of pain – I mean like a big kick in the nuts pain). People say that it’s a power thing, but I know it’s a sickness thing. It’s sick to be you if you are with someone like him.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;">Don’t be distracted by the sexy grin or the bulging pecs (or bulging other stuff) on the outside. Look at the inside. Fire is beautiful but it hurts when you get burned. Stay away from these creeps as if your life depended on it, as it surely does.</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Cruel.jpg" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-9731" title="Men Who Are Cruel" src="http://thewondrous.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Men-Who-Are-Cruel-600x529.jpg" alt="" style="margin: 0px 0px 18px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-image: none; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; clear: both; display: block; max-width: 600px;" height="266" width="302" /></a></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 21px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://inventorspot.com/" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline-style: none; font-size: 14px; background-color: transparent; border-style: none; text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer; color: rgb(174, 27, 34);">source</a></p></span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-4497059916578508032010-12-10T04:09:00.000-08:002010-12-10T04:10:12.850-08:00Why you should have sex everydayHeard that song called Sexual Healing?<br />It's not just a metaphor. Sex can actually heal. It can heal your body and mind and also prevent lots of diseases. <p>Some say it's the first medicine ever known to man and it should be administered daily. Sounds too good to be true? Let's discover the five reasons to have sex each day.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Great form of exercise</strong> </span><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/2009/11/22_31/sexjog.jpg" align="right" border="0" /><br />Making love is a form of physical activity. During intercourse, the physiological changes in your body are consistent with a workout. You must have noticed that the respiratory rate rises, which means you get tired. Hence, you burn calories.<br /><br />If you have sex three times a week for 15 minutes you'll burn about 7.500 calories in a year.<br /><br />That's the equivalent of jogging 120km! Heavy breathing raises the amount of oxygen in your cells, and the testosterone produced during sex keeps your bones and muscles strong.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Pain relief</strong> </span><br />The "Honey, not today, I have a headache" cannot be an excuse any more.<br /><br />During sex, both male and female bodies produce endorphins, hormones that act as weak painkillers.<br /><br />A study conducted by reknowned sex theraphist Gina Ogden showed that during sexual stimulation and especially during orgasm, we don't feel pain.<br /><br />If she finds another excuse, remind her that sex is good for her entire reproductive system, because it trains the PC muscle, which keeps the reproductive organs in shape.<br /><br />In women, sex can also increase fertility, postpone the menopause and relieve PMS symptoms.</p> <p><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Prostate protection</strong><br /></span>Most of the fluid you ejaculate is secreted by the prostate gland. If you stop ejaculating, the fluid stays in the gland, which tends to swell, causing lots of problems.<br /><br />Regular ejaculation will wash those fluids out and ensure the well being of your prostate until old age. Problems may also occur when you suddenly change the frequency of ejaculations.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Prevents ED</span><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/2009/11/22_31/sexhead.jpg" align="right" border="0" /><br /></strong>Fifty per cent of men older than 40 suffer from erectile dysfunctions and all young men fear the moment when they won't be able to get it up any more. The best medicine against impotence is...sex.<br /><br />An erection keeps the blood flowing through your penile arteries, so the tissue stays healthy. Plus, doctors compare an erection to an athletic reflex: the more you train the more capable you are to perform.</p> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Stress relief</strong> </span><br />It's a scientific fact: sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels.<br /><br />During sex your body produces dopamine, a substance that fights stress hormones, endorphins, aka "happiness hormones" and oxytocin, a desire-enhancing hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.<br /><br /><br /><em>-timesofindia.indiatimes.com</em>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-16976841366792143602010-12-10T04:04:00.000-08:002010-12-10T04:05:28.087-08:0010 places where women want to be touched<p>Forget a woman’s cleavage, there are more erogenous spots that you can explore to get your lady sexcited. Read on to discover her ten most sensuous body parts.</p> <p>What guys often mistake is that they go straight for the woman’s breasts or other private parts, without concentrating on her nine other moan zones.</p> <p>So, if you want to get your girl into the mood, stimulate some of her often-neglected body parts.</p> <p><br /><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong>Tresses<br /><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/tresses.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br /></strong></span>All guys like women with gorgeous locks. But what you need to know is that women love being touched on their head. It’s quite a stress reliever.<br />Running your hands sensuously through her tresses is likely to send shivers down her spine. Massage her temples to the nape of her neck and she'll be game to your desires.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Nape of her neck<br /><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/nape1.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br /></span></strong>In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was considered extremely attractive by men as it was one of the few zones that were not covered by the elaborate kimono.<br />Today, very few men focus on the nape of the neck, but we suggest you build up the pleasure by gentle touching and kissing your lady love from her hairline down to her shoulders. It will make her reach dizzying heights of pleasure.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Collar bone<br /></span></strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/collarbone1.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br />A well-defined collarbone is what men find irresistible. So, why not touch and kiss her there. Unbutton her shirt just a little and stimulate her collarbone with your touch. Create circles with your tongue and give her love bites right there, just to remind her of how much you want her.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Small of her back<br /></span></strong> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/news/back1.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br />Most women love it when their guy places his protective hand against the small of her back as it shows that he feels very strongly about her.<br />So, why not incorporate this gesture into your foreplay routine, by kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back. It will definitely get her into the mood for more!</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Behind her knees<br /><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/knees.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br /></span></strong>This area is a power house of sensitive nerve endings. You can gently caress the back of her knee under her skirt while the two of you are in an open public space as it is sure to get her excited by the time you reach home.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Palms of her hands<br /> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/palms1.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br /></span></strong>We use our hands to please our partners, but have you ever thought that you could arouse a woman by stimulating the palm of her hand? Run your finger along her palm as that will make her feel relaxed and ready for a sexy rendezvous ahead.</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Her earlobes</span></strong><br /><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/news/earlobes.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br />This is one of the most erogenous moan centers of a woman’s body. Touching, kissing and even gently biting her earlobes will send her into a sexual tizzy. If you are getting extra adventurous, simply nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but don’t put your tongue inside her ear. That’s a major turn off!</p> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Happy feet<br /></span></strong> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/news/feet.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br />There’s nothing more sinfully seductive than a foot massage. It will help her relax, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Get yourself some aromatic massage oil or lotion.<br />Pay extra attention to the pressure points such as her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women love enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so ask your babe what she would have you do before putting them in your mouth.</p> <strong><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);">Soft thighs<br /></span></strong> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><strong><img src="http://www.dailychilli.com/images/stories/archive/thighs1.jpg" border="0" /></strong></span><br />Touching a woman’s inner thighs without touching her private parts is the most sensual tease that is sure to get her all charged up.<br />Employ your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs but remember to pull back before going all the way.<br /><br /><br />Source: <em>The Times of India</em><br /><em>Illustrations by<strong> Rosli Yacob</strong></em>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-38974137862314075042010-08-09T17:48:00.000-07:002010-08-09T17:49:24.745-07:00Alesha Dixon - To Love Again - Official video *SINGLE OUT NOW*<object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/_Ah9HOWzHKs&hl=en_US&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/_Ah9HOWzHKs&hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="640" height="385"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-85212248249967481412010-08-09T17:42:00.000-07:002010-08-09T17:50:18.700-07:00How To Love Again...<span style="font-style: italic;">Once your heart has been broken, it can be very difficult to love again. Some people never move past a broken heart. However, you can learn to love again, even after being emotionally wounded by a failed relationship or a lost love. To deprive yourself of love is to miss out on one of life’s biggest blessings. Here is how to love again.<br /><br /></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TGChvMVdSjI/AAAAAAAAA20/A6ulylgmcAg/s1600/love+again.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TGChvMVdSjI/AAAAAAAAA20/A6ulylgmcAg/s400/love+again.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503576576783895090" border="0" /></a><br /><ol id="intelliTxt"><li id="jsArticleStep1"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>1</span></div> <p>Grieve your losses. Before you will be ready to love again, you need to heal the pain that your lost love has inflicted. Whether you lost your love through a failed relationship or the death of a loved one, your lost love left emotional wounds. Grieve your losses so you will free yourself to love again.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep2"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>2</span></div> <p>Recognize the need to love again. Loving others is one of the most basic needs of human existence. Without love, life is meaningless. While you might need to take some time to lick your emotional wounds, closing off your heart to love will make your life seem empty.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep3"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>3</span></div> <p>Decide that loving again is worth the risk. While you are still in the grieving process, your heart might feel too fragile to take the risk of loving again. However, as you grieve your loss and become more emotionally healthy, you will move toward being ready to open up your heart again.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep4"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>4</span></div> <p>Love yourself. The more you love yourself, the more likely you are to attract a person who is emotionally healthy. If you go out looking for love to fill a hole in your heart, then you are much more likely to attract someone who wants to take advantage of you. However, if you come from the perspective of having lots of love to give, then you will attract a similar person.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep5"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>5</span></div> <p>Think about what you want in a new relationship. Set a standard for what you are seeking in a new relationship. Make it a point to progress in this relationship, and don't fall into old patterns just because they are comfortable.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep6"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>6</span></div> <p>Let the love come to you. Don’t go out looking for “Mr. Right” in places where singles congregate. Instead, get involved in activities which you enjoy that bring you into contact with people who have the same interests. Whether you do this through a church, a bowling league or a city tennis club, get involved in your community in a positive manner.</p> </li><li id="jsArticleStep7"> <div class="stepBg">Step <span>7</span></div> <p>Ease into a new relationship slowly. Do not try to replace the lost relationship. Instead, allow a new one to grow and blossom in its own way</p> </li></ol><div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Source: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2299407_love-again.html#ixzz0w9wM3I6u">How to Love Again | eHow.com</a> <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2299407_love-again.html#ixzz0w9wM3I6u">http://www.ehow.com/how_2299407_love-again.html#ixzz0w9wM3I6u</a><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-2058156656200575842010-08-04T08:28:00.000-07:002010-08-04T08:31:24.334-07:00EVEN GOD GAVE UP<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFmHvQ8YQTI/AAAAAAAAA2s/Jz7hOEXLAIg/s1600/God.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFmHvQ8YQTI/AAAAAAAAA2s/Jz7hOEXLAIg/s200/God.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501577665881588018" border="0" /></a><br /><span><b>A completion manager walking along a California beach was deep in<br />prayer. All of a sudden, he said out loud, "Lord, grant me one wish."<br /><br />Suddenly the sky clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord<br />said, "Because you have TRIED to be faithful to me in all ways, I will<br />grant you one wish."<br /><br />The man said, "Build a bridge to <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1280936256_0">Hawaii</span> so I can drive over anytime I want."<br /><br />The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the enormous<br />challenges for that kind of undertaking. The supports required to reach the<br />bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would take. I can do it,<br />but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little</b><br /><b>more time and think of another wish, a wish you think would honour and<br />glorify me."<br /><br />The man thought about it for a long time. Finally he said, "Lord, I wish that<br />I could understand women. I want to know how they feel inside, what they are<br />thinking when they give me the <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1280936256_1">silent treatment</span></b>, <b> why they cry, what they mean</b><br /><b>when they say 'nothing', and how I can make a woman truly happy."<br /><br />The Lord replied, "You want two lanes or four lanes on that bridge?"</b></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-9467193381491132372010-08-01T06:56:00.000-07:002010-08-01T07:00:05.651-07:00Is Love at First Sight a Real Thing?<h1><div class="n2">The Debate Over Love at First Sight</div></h1><p id="byline">By <a href="http://teenadvice.about.com/bio/Holly-Ashworth-61530.htm" rel="author">Holly Ashworth</a>, About.com Guide</p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV9uLBgBhI/AAAAAAAAA2c/Jg8eRS98cjM/s1600/love-at-first-sight.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 393px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV9uLBgBhI/AAAAAAAAA2c/Jg8eRS98cjM/s400/love-at-first-sight.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500440752089466386" border="0" /></a>Listen to enough pop songs and watch enough romantic movies, and you're bound to start believing that love at first sight happens all the time. But does it exist in the real world, between real people?<br /><br />Like so much about love, the question of love at first sight can't be answered objectively. But I'll do my best to answer it here in the most helpful way.<br /><br /><b>Is Your Mind Playing Tricks on You?</b><br />Have you ever seen someone and instantly felt attracted to every part of them, including their personality (even though you haven't even talked to them yet)? You might be quick to call it love at first sight, but it's probably what psychologists call the <a href="http://psychology.wikia.com/wiki/Halo_effect" zt="-o1/XJ" target="_blank">attractiveness halo effect</a>. When you see someone who looks great, your brain sometimes jumps to the conclusion that their personality must be great, too.<br /><br />We all know that not everyone's looks and personalities match up. Some attractive people are total jerks, and some of the best people in the world aren't what you'd necessarily think of as hot. So the halo effect is really just an illusion. Your sudden feelings of love might go away as soon as you get to know the person better.<br /><br /><b>Love: More than Just Looks</b><br />Everyone's got a different take on <a href="http://teenadvice.about.com/od/whatislove/What_is_Love_Am_I_In_Love.htm">what love is</a>, but few people believe that's made out of stuff you can find just by looking at someone. Love (at least if you ask me) is made up of compromise, empathy and patience. You can't give or get those sorts of things at first sight.<br /><br />That doesn't mean that your initial feelings can't turn <i>into</i> love. When you first see someone, you might instantly know that you want to get close to them and learn about them. As your relationship progresses, those feelings might eventually grow into love. But is "love" really the word for your gut reaction? Not unless your definition of love is kinda superficial.<br /><br /><b>When Couples "Just Know"</b><br />You might meet couples who say that when they saw each other for the first time, they "just knew." What did they really know? Probably that they liked how the other person looked and acted, and that they wanted to take things to the next step and get to know each other better.<br /><br />If they want to call it "love at first sight," that's okay by me. But keep in mind that there are lots of other couples who get the same feeling when they meet each other, and it ends badly or doesn't go anywhere at all. It's not the first glance that makes it love. It's the stuff that comes later - the commitment and caring that makes a relationship last.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV9uo6mYKI/AAAAAAAAA2k/Jc_Cdq12xEk/s1600/493237.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 382px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV9uo6mYKI/AAAAAAAAA2k/Jc_Cdq12xEk/s400/493237.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500440760113586338" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><b>The Danger of Believing Too Strongly in Love at First Sight</b><br />You might be wondering why I'm giving love at first sight such a bad rap. It's not that I don't think the idea is sweet, or that I don't love me some romantic movies. (My favorite love at first sight scene's gotta be this one from <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZztlBFjiqQ" zt="-o1/XJ" target="_blank">Romeo and Juliet</a>.)<br /><br />But it's wrong to think that if you don't have intense feelings right away, it could never be love. Some of the best and strongest relationships started out in totally unromantic ways.<br /><br />More importantly, though, the halo effect can be dangerous. If you see someone hot and assume that what you feel is love, you'll overlook qualities in them that could end up hurting you. You might let them get away with <a href="http://teenadvice.about.com/od/datinglove/tp/signs_of_an_abusive_relationship.htm">abusive behavior</a> because your heart has taken over your better judgment.<br /><br /><b>So What's the Answer?</b><br />Whether or not you want to believe in love at first sight is up to you. Just don't go out there expecting to find it and get upset when you don't.<br /><br />And when you meet someone you instantly swoon over, be aware that there's a whole lot about them you <i>haven't</i> seen yet - including some stuff that might not be so deserving of your love.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-80343193816566330582010-08-01T06:50:00.000-07:002010-08-01T06:55:31.141-07:0010 Easy Flirt Tips<h1><div class="n2"> How to Flirt With a Girl or Guy</div></h1><p id="byline">By <a href="http://teenadvice.about.com/bio/Holly-Ashworth-61530.htm" rel="author">Holly Ashworth</a>, About.com Guide</p><p id="byline"><br /></p><div id="intro">Flirting's a language - and just like with any other language, no one's born a fluent flirt. If you want to know how to flirt like a pro, you've got to learn the signs. Follow these flirt tips and practice till you're an expert flirt.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>1. Choose Your Targets</h2>You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every day - people who might not even be on your dating radar - on order to hone your skills. That way, you'll have some flirting experience under your belt when you approach the people who really matter.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>2. Have an Opening Line</h2>Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV8mpw0p0I/AAAAAAAAA2U/3vzAR9lQwVo/s1600/flirt.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/TFV8mpw0p0I/AAAAAAAAA2U/3vzAR9lQwVo/s400/flirt.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500439523390433090" border="0" /></a><br /></div><div class="lsItm"><h2>3. Make Eye Contact</h2>If you don't make eye contact, you'll look bored or uninterested, and that's <i>not</i> an impression you want to give. Too shy to look them right in the eyes? Here's a trick: look at the spot right <i>between</i> their eyes. It'll look like eye contact to them.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>4. Come Up With a Compliment</h2>Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or an article of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you. (If you can't think of an opening line for tip #2, a compliment will do.)</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>5. Smile</h2>You don't have to go all Bozo the Clown, but the idea is to look like you enjoy talking to them. So be sure to throw them a smile whenever it makes sense. If they shoot one back, you'll know that they like talking to you, too.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>6. Flirt With Your Body</h2>The body language you use when you flirt is just as important as what you say. Use good posture, point your body towards the person and try to find excuses to touch them. For more on how to do that, check these <a href="http://dating.about.com/od/bodylanguage/tp/bodylanguage.htm">body language flirting tips</a>.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>7. Keep It Light</h2>You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a train). The point of flirting isn't to bare your soul or share your honest opinions about everything. It's to open the door to lots more conversations down the road.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>8. Beware of Awkward Silences</h2>Once the convo drags, it's probably gone for good. Fill an awkward silence by asking the other person a question. Can't think of one? Ask them about something they're wearing or something in your environment (like a painting on the wall, or the music that's playing).</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>9. Wrap It Up</h2>If you're not interested in talking anymore, politely find an excuse to head off into the sunset. If you <i>are</i> interested, give them a way to get in touch with you - like your phone number or Facebook name. This is (hopefully) just your first convo of many, so save some of that charm for the next time.</div><div class="lsItm"><h2>10. Practice, Practice, Practice</h2>No one's perfect at flirting the first time around. If the idea of flirting still gives you butterflies, don't worry - it just means that you need more practice. The more you flirt, the easier it'll get.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-63878020632124513442010-08-01T06:30:00.001-07:002010-08-01T06:30:29.110-07:00How To Kiss With Passion<div style="background:#000000;width:440px;height:272px"><embed flashvars="playerVars=showStats=yes|autoPlay=no|videoTitle=How To Kiss With Passion" src="http://www.metacafe.com/fplayer/1642792/how_to_kiss_with_passion.swf" width="440" height="272" wmode="transparent" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" name="Metacafe_1642792" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></div><div style="font-size:12px;"><a href="http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1642792/how_to_kiss_with_passion/">How To Kiss With Passion</a> - <a href="http://www.metacafe.com/">Click here for more home videos</a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-16042584055501341922010-07-16T17:06:00.000-07:002010-07-16T17:07:10.616-07:00An Inspiring Love Story<object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Sqz3gQPU02E&hl=en_US&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Sqz3gQPU02E&hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-634232090762401092010-07-16T17:01:00.000-07:002010-07-16T17:04:50.318-07:00A HEART TOUCHING LOVE STORY THAT WOULD MAKE YOUR HEART CRYTo fully appreciate the video, you will have to watch it it the end. You are assured, you will not regret this!<br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/nv6wTA8SGAs&hl=en_US&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/nv6wTA8SGAs&hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-62124289206658038642010-05-27T07:40:00.001-07:002010-05-27T07:40:30.957-07:00Lady GaGa Poker Face with Lyrics<object width="500" height="405"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/jpjERr772RQ&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/jpjERr772RQ&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="500" height="405"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-8626625394259938482010-05-27T07:27:00.000-07:002010-05-27T07:54:59.456-07:00Quotes<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/S_6HsueXaJI/AAAAAAAAA1E/kUjrBfvkUZI/s1600/loveimage.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 225px; height: 225px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/S_6HsueXaJI/AAAAAAAAA1E/kUjrBfvkUZI/s400/loveimage.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475963399388489874" /></a><br /><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 255);font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-family:times new roman;"><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial; color: rgb(51, 204, 255);font-size:180%;" >" If you were hurt once and afraid to do it again...<br /><br />think of the first time but with a happier end "</span></span></span><br /><br />By: Hailey W.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-7810807067620620582010-05-27T07:24:00.001-07:002010-05-27T07:34:36.209-07:00Bad Romance<object width="500" height="405"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/L6dvPnSr9tA&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/L6dvPnSr9tA&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="500" height="405"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-22635986662981193572010-05-27T07:19:00.000-07:002010-05-27T07:23:02.879-07:00Please Hear What I'm Not Saying<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/S_6ANNOwXmI/AAAAAAAAA08/AeLh316Fo1g/s1600/love+poster.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 201px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/S_6ANNOwXmI/AAAAAAAAA08/AeLh316Fo1g/s400/love+poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475955161307307618" border="0" /></a><br /><p><strong></strong><br /> <br /> Don't be fooled by me.<br /> Don't be fooled by the face I wear for I wear a mask,<br /> a thousand masks,<br /> masks that I'm afraid to take off,<br /> and none of them is me.<br /> <br /> Pretending is an art that's second nature with me,<br /> but don't be fooled, for God's sake don't be fooled.<br /> I give you the impression that I'm secure,<br /> that all is sunny and unruffled with me,<br /> within as well as without,<br /> that confidence is my name and coolness my game,<br /> that the water's calm and I'm in command and that I need no one,<br /> but don't believe me.<br /> My surface may seem smooth but my surface is my mask,<br /> ever-varying and ever-concealing.<br /> Beneath lies no complacence.<br /> Beneath lies confusion, and fear, and aloneness.<br /> But I hide this.<br /> I don't want anybody to know it.<br /> I panic at the thought of my weakness exposed.<br /> That's why I frantically create a mask to hide behind,<br /> a nonchalant sophisticated facade,<br /> to help me pretend,<br /> to shield me from the glance that knows.<br /> <br /> But such a glance is precisely my salvation,<br /> my only hope, and I know it.<br /> That is, if it's followed by acceptance,<br /> if it's followed by love.<br /> It's the only thing that can liberate me from myself,<br /> from my own self-built prison walls,<br /> from the barriers I so painstakingly erect.<br /> It's the only thing that will assure me of what I can't assure myself,<br /> that I'm really worth something.<br /> But I don't tell you this.<br /> I don't dare to, I'm afraid to.<br /> I'm afraid your glance will not be followed by acceptance,<br /> will not be followed by love.<br /> I'm afraid you'll think less of me,<br /> that you'll laugh, and your laugh would kill me.<br /> I'm afraid that deep-down I'm nothing<br /> and that you will see this and reject me.<br /> <br /> So I play my game, my desperate pretending game,<br /> with a facade of assurance without and a trembling child within.<br /> So begins the glittering but empty parade of masks,<br /> and my life becomes a front.<br /> I tell you everything that's really nothing,<br /> and nothing of what's everything,<br /> of what's crying within me.<br /> So when I'm going through my routine<br /> do not be fooled by what I'm saying.<br /> Please listen carefully and try to hear what I'm not saying,<br /> what I'd like to be able to say,<br /> what for survival I need to say,<br /> but what I can't say.<br /> <br /> I don't like hiding.<br /> I don't like playing superficial phony games.<br /> I want to stop playing them.<br /> I want to be genuine and spontaneous and me<br /> but you've got to help me.<br /> You've got to hold out your hand<br /> even when that's the last thing I seem to want.<br /> Only you can wipe away from my eyes<br /> the blank stare of the breathing dead.<br /> Only you can call me into aliveness.<br /> Each time you're kind, and gentle, and encouraging,<br /> each time you try to understand because you really care,<br /> my heart begins to grow wings--<br /> very small wings,<br /> very feeble wings,<br /> but wings!<br /> <br /> With your power to touch me into feeling<br /> you can breathe life into me.<br /> I want you to know that.<br /> I want you to know how important you are to me,<br /> how you can be a creator--an honest-to-God creator--<br /> of the person that is me if you choose to.<br /> You alone can break down the wall behind which I tremble,<br /> you alone can remove my mask,<br /> you alone can release me from my shadow-world of panic,<br /> from my lonely prison,<br /> if you choose to.<br /> Please choose to.<br /> <br /> Do not pass me by.<br /> It will not be easy for you.<br /> A long conviction of worthlessness builds strong walls.<br /> The nearer you approach to me the blinder I may strike back.<br /> It's irrational, but despite what the books say about man<br /> often I am irrational.<br /> I fight against the very thing I cry out for.<br /> But I am told that love is stronger than strong walls<br /> and in this lies my hope.<br /> Please try to beat down those walls<br /> with firm hands but with gentle hands<br /> for a child is very sensitive.<br /> <br /> Who am I, you may wonder?<br /> I am someone you know very well.<br /> For I am every man you meet<br /> and I am every woman you meet.</p> <p><span class="credit">~ Charles C. Finn, September 1966</span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-87692194805399166172010-05-27T07:06:00.000-07:002010-05-27T07:13:42.570-07:00Taylor Swift - You Belong With Me<object width="660" height="405"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/VuNIsY6JdUw&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/VuNIsY6JdUw&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="660" height="405"></embed></object><br /><br />You're on the phone with your girlfriend, she's upset<br />She's going off about something that you said<br />'Cause she doesn't get your humor like I do<br /><br />I'm in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night<br />I'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like<br />And she'll never know your story like I do<br /><br />But she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts<br />She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers<br />Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find<br />That what you're looking for has been here the whole time<br /><br />If you could see that I'm the one who understands you<br />Been here all along, so why can't you see?<br />You, you belong with me, you belong with me<br /><br />Walking the streets with you and your worn-out jeans<br />I can't help thinking this is how it ought to be<br />Laughing on a park bench, thinking to myself<br />Hey, isn't this easy?<br /><br />And you've got a smile that could light up this whole town<br />I haven't seen it in a while since she brought you down<br />You say you're fine, I know you better than that<br />Hey, what ya doing with a girl like that?<br /><br />She wears high heels, I wear sneakers<br />She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers<br />Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find<br />That what you're looking for has been here the whole time<br /><br />If you could see that I'm the one who understands you<br />Been here all along, so why can't you see?<br />You belong with me<br /><br />Standing by and waiting at your back door<br />All this time how could you not know?<br />Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me<br /><br />Oh, I remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night<br />I'm the one who makes you laugh when you know you're 'bout to cry<br />And I know your favorite songs and you tell me 'bout your dreams<br />Think I know where you belong, think I know it's with me<br /><br />Can't you see that I'm the one who understands you?<br />Been here all along, so why can't you see?<br />You belong with me<br /><br />Standing by and waiting at your back door<br />All this time, how could you not know?<br />Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me<br /><br />You belong with me<br />Have you ever thought just maybe<br />You belong with me?<br />You belong with meUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-18544975750706235852010-05-27T06:59:00.000-07:002010-05-27T07:04:38.725-07:00Taylor Swift - Love Story<object width="660" height="405"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/8xg3vE8Ie_E&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/8xg3vE8Ie_E&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="660" height="405"></embed></object><br /><br />We were both young when I first saw you.<br />I close my eyes, and the flashback starts,<br />I'm standing there,<br />On the balcony in summer air.<br /><br />I see the lights, see the party, the ballgowns.<br />See you make your way through the crowd,<br />And say, "Hello",<br />Little did I know,<br /><br />That you were Romeo,<br />You were throwing pebbles,<br />And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet."<br />And I was crying on the staircase,<br />Begging you, "Please don't go".<br /><br />And I said,<br />"Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.<br />I'll be waiting, all that's left to do is run.<br />You be the prince, and I'll be the princess,<br />It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."<br /><br />So I sneak out to the garden to see you,<br />We keep quiet, 'cause we're dead if he knew,<br />So close your eyes,<br />Escape this town for a little while.<br /><br />'Cause you were Romeo,<br />I was a scarlet letter,<br />And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet."<br />But you were everything to me,<br />Begging you, "Please don't go".<br /><br />And I said,<br />"Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.<br />I'll be waiting, all that's left to do is run.<br />You be the prince, and I'll be the princess,<br />It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."<br /><br />"Romeo, save me, they're trying to tell me how to feel.<br />This love is difficult, but it's real.<br />Don't be afraid, we'll make it of this mess,<br />It's a love story, baby, just say, 'yes'."<br /><br />Well, I got tired of waiting,<br />Wondering if you were ever coming around.<br />My faith in you was fading,<br />When I met you on the outskirts of town.<br /><br />And I said,<br />"Romeo, save me, I've been feeling so alone.<br />I keep waiting for you, but you never come.<br />Is this in my head,<br />I don't know what to think,"<br /><br />You knelt to the ground,<br />And pulled out a ring and said,<br />"Marry me, Juliet, you'll never have to be alone.<br />I love you, and that's all I really know.<br />I talked to your dad, go pick out a white dress,<br />It's a love story, baby just say yes."<br /><br />We were both young when I first saw you...Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-51132584232074725432009-11-21T18:34:00.000-08:002009-11-21T19:13:28.959-08:00Ten Girl Secrets Revealed!<h2 style="font-weight: normal; color: rgb(255, 153, 255);font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Sure women are the fairer sex, but that doesn't mean they're all sugar and no spice.</span></h2><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/Swin37_OvBI/AAAAAAAAAvU/4-k_Qnu03SY/s1600/%5Bwallcoo_com%5D_PhotoBook_Horikita.Maki_NS.EYES.No.2_019.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 356px; height: 266px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/Swin37_OvBI/AAAAAAAAAvU/4-k_Qnu03SY/s320/%5Bwallcoo_com%5D_PhotoBook_Horikita.Maki_NS.EYES.No.2_019.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5406755932095822866" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><p style="font-family:arial;"> <span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">As a member of this mysterious team (and at the risk of being banned), I have the inside scoop on the strange and mischievous things women do and the reasons they do it. Just be warned: these tips are meant to inform and aren't pretty. Below are our top 10 best-kept secrets, tricks and techniques for keeping you around (or, in this case, totally alienating you). </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>1. We never "accidentally" leave our underwear at your apartment</strong>.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Aside from the stray hair tie here and there, no woman ever "forgets" to put on her panties before she leaves the next morning. Unless you're about to get busted by your parents/girlfriend/priest and little Miss Booty Call must crawl out of a second story window, that bra lying innocently under your bed was left there on purpose. We like planting things in your home because we want you to think of us, but also because our dirty panties are like little landmines that we hope the "other woman" will step on then freak out and leave you forever.</span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>2. We like to Google you</strong>, <strong>but never mention our discoveries</strong>.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">It gets worse: we will then ask leading questions that pertain to what we found as a way to tease out some dark, dirty secret. You see, we respect your privacy, which is why we would never come clean and tell you that we know about the time you tried out for </span><em style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Who Wants to Be a Millionaire</em><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">. We want </span><em style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">you</em><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"> to tell </span><em style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">us</em><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);"> because honesty is important. </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>3. We are talented when it comes to acting.</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Think about the number of times you've brought your girlfriend to orgasm. Now take that number and minus the times you thought she was faking. Take THAT number and divide it by 1000. That is the number of times she actually came. I'm really, really sorry. We like having sex with you, but not when it cuts into Conan. </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>4. We will go to great lengths to find out what your ex-girlfriend looked like</strong>.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">We'll begin with an image search. Then we'll graduate to Webshots, class pictures from her ten-year high school reunion, Flickr.com and a hazy group picture taken in a bar and posted on someone's Myspace. We will then judge her, call our friends and send them a link so they too may judge her. The consensus will always be that the current girlfriend (us) is way prettier than former girlfriend (fat, ugly hag). </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>5. We booty call ex boyfriends and old flings for sex to keep our numbers down. </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Doing so helps us from feeling like sluts. But that doesn't mean when you ask how many guys we have slept with, we won't lie through our teeth. Add ten to the number we give you and it's still too low. </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>6. We are way more insecure about our jobs, intellect and education than our looks. </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">But that only applies if we're more attractive than you; if you're more attractive we're insecure about our looks in addition to our jobs, intellect and education. If we're hot and make more money than you, tough shit, you'll never hold the remote. </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>7. We count the condoms under the sink</strong>.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">But you already knew that, which is why we're well aware that it's a decoy box. We count that one too. You weren't prepared for that one were you? </span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>8. We equate sex with love. </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">We think that if we fuck you hard enough, we'll knock something loose and you'll fall in love. This is why we have sex with you first and expect a commitment later. This never works, yet we will lie and tell you that we're only interested in having fun. We don't want to have fun; we want a boyfriend.</span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>9. We lie to you about who we are with</strong>.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">More than once. There is fairly high chance that a woman has lied about having a date to make you jealous, but in essence, it isn't really lying because although she spent the evening alone at home eating chocolate and watching old episodes of Melrose Place, she did have plans, with someone, of an ambiguous gender, and food and beverages could have been consumed had she not cancelled, hypothetically. Ok, please don't judge us.</span></p> <p style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" ><strong>10. We are evil.</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">We are evil for three days before our periods. PMS is a legitimate condition and now that a drug for PMDD is available, we all have that too. Some of us cry as a result of PMS, sometimes we need to talk about our relationship and why you won't just commit, while we're crying, of course. We feel fat during this time and we hate you. Your job is easy: Just try not to piss us off more. We sincerely believe that you enjoy seeing us in pain. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial; color: rgb(255, 255, 204);">Sadly, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Who knows, maybe now that we've been exposed the madness will stop. But probably not. </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-53424136842827163112009-11-21T18:27:00.000-08:002009-11-21T18:32:55.575-08:00Men's top sex secrets revealed!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/SwiizOa3tDI/AAAAAAAAAvM/iOppGnqDRKs/s1600/couple-intimacy.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 283px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/SwiizOa3tDI/AAAAAAAAAvM/iOppGnqDRKs/s320/couple-intimacy.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5406750353586107442" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="">According to Fox News, here are 10 things that you didn't know about men and sex: </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 1. Trapped Sperm </span><br /><span style=""> Not all sperm go racing for the egg at once. Once sperm has been deposited into the vaginal canal, some of them are temporarily trapped in a semen coagulate or clot. Eventually, they are decoagulated by enzymes, which set them free to swim about a female''s reproductive system. This clotting, according to scientists, is meant to pace the release of sperm into the uterus, increasing the chance that one of these sperms will reach the egg and fertilise it.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">2. Oxytocin affects males too </span><br /><span style=""> It is believed that oxytocin affects females during sex (and breast-feeding). But this cuddle hormone, released by both sexes during intimacy, is also found to influence males. Research from Switzerland found that oxytocin is associated with increased feelings of trust in males. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 3. High testosterone = Less sex </span><br /><span style=""> While higher testosterone levels is typically considered a good thing for men when it comes to their sex drive, still researchers continually found that males with higher testosterone levels marry less often, are more abusive in their marriages and divorce more regularly. In fact, married men see more action than single men. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 4. Death during sex has a prototype </span><br /><span style=""> While examining the incidence of death during sex, a 1975 study discovered a unique pattern in males: the "deceased is usually married; he is not with a spouse and in unfamiliar surroundings," and death usually occurs after "a big meal with alcohol." Another study in 1989 found further evidence supporting the extramarital sex bit. Fourteen of the 20 cases of "la mort d''amour," or coital death, happened during an affair. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">5. Orgasm ... or lack of ... may prevent breast cancer in males </span><br /><span style=""> A study in Greece found evidence that the frequency of adult orgasms<table class="cnt" style="margin: 0pt 10px 0pt 0pt; clear: both;" align="left" width="200"></table> may have an impact on the incidence of breast cancer in men. In fact, it was also revealed that males with breast cancer had experienced fewer orgasms on average than men without the disease. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 6. You can tell a guy's size by his fingers </span><br /><span style=""> A University of Liverpool research cited that if a man''s ring fingers are longer than his index fingers, this means there were healthy testosterone levels in the womb. If the ring fingers are the same size or smaller than the index fingers, then the male received lower levels of testosterone, implying that one can estimate the length of his organ by the length of the ring finger. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">7. Men fall in love faster than women </span><br /><span style=""> It's not the women, but men, who get out of control after a glimpse of the right attractive face and fall head over heels in love immediately, claimed love researcher Dr. Helen Fisher. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 8. Family affects testosterone </span><br /><span style=""> As a man becomes increasingly attached to his family, his testosterone level goes down, according to a 2001 Mayo Clinic study. Particularly, fathers experience a significant decline in levels of testosterone with the birth of his child, especially when he holds the baby. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 9. Can a bowel movement make for bliss? </span><br /><span style=""> In a 2002 study, it was mentioned that a male had a history of orgasmic-like feelings after going to the bathroom. After he answered nature's call, his body went through the rest of the male sexual response cycle. His pulse rate increased as he reached climactic state, followed by relaxation, then extreme fatigue. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 10. Males like 'unusual' sex </span><br /><span style=""> Men have a 20 to 1 likeliness against women to practice an "unusual" and often socially unacceptable or illegal behavior, for example exhibitionism. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-69074149882646784582009-08-05T20:21:00.000-07:002009-08-05T20:34:27.980-07:00Cool ComicHere's a comic I've just received through email from a friend. Hey, who says the topic of love must be serious.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/SnpOcEiXBmI/AAAAAAAAAuc/6iXtZ-pT_FU/s1600-h/cool+comic.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 530px; height: 676px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oBu53nHaF6o/SnpOcEiXBmI/AAAAAAAAAuc/6iXtZ-pT_FU/s400/cool+comic.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366688150126528098" border="0" /></a><br />Oops! Look like the quality of this comic turn out poor in Blogger. Please click on the comic to get a clearer copy. Thanks!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-51938283424566620392009-08-02T07:49:00.000-07:002009-08-02T07:51:37.406-07:00Why do We Always Hurt The Ones We Love<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/fAOCbLshTGc&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&hl=en&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/fAOCbLshTGc&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&hl=en&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br /><b>Here we go again,<br />Hurting each other for no reason<br />Wondering why we keep committing the same mistakes.<br />Sometimes I'm feeling<br />That it's more than just illusion<br />Tell me why we keep pretending<br />Are we so scared of give and take?<br />Ohh...<br /><br />CHORUS:<br />Why do we always hurt the ones we love?<br />(Why?)<br />Just when it seems we've finally made it through<br />Why can't we fly between the eagle and the dove?<br />Why do we always hurt the ones we love?<br /><br />BRIDGE:<br />When you cry, the tears were falling like raindrops<br />From my eyes...why do we do hurt each other?<br />Tell me why we shouldn't try, are there some things we didin't share?<br />Why do I see you walking out right w/ me,<br />I see you standing here?<br /><br />-INSTRUMENTAL-<br /><br />Tell me why... do we hurt the ones we love? (Why?)<br />When we've finally made it through why can't we fly between the eagle and the dove?<br />Why do we always hurt the ones we love...ohh...</b>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-410803977011150307.post-68599274541402493792009-07-18T19:22:00.000-07:002009-07-18T19:35:41.624-07:00Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish LastFound this article and I can't help but to include it in my blog because I know some of us may need to read it. So, for the benefits of them, and maybe even you, here's the article. To be fair to the original author, I've to include the author's name.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">By Dating expert <a href="http://www.askapril.com/">April Masini</a> Special to Yahoo! Personals</span><br /><br />Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?<br />Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants? Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.<br /><br />First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting -- have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on." Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.<br /><br />Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way. What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.<br /><br />To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.<br /><br />It works like this:<br /><br />Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation. You are in a position of weakness and you are perceived as weak. Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and it's outcome. Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong, and exciting. More, they are perceived as being unworthy and as lacking value.<br />Translation: Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value... it's human nature.<br /><br />The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How? He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is. He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him. More, his attitude is, yeah, I'd like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK -- I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3