An Eventful Day

Yesterday was an eventful day for me.

It started with a friend, CYM. He had his gallstones removed. This is considered a minor surgery considered today's advanced medical technology. What the doctor did was to cut a few incisions, then insert a tiny camera (For looking around) and a vacuum tube to suck out the stones.

Fairly minor and safe. But CYM died due to complications from this surgery. Somehow, a few hours after his surgery, he complained of heart palpitations and difficulty in breathing. The doctor noticed that his blood pressure was dropping and blood sugar level highly levitated.

Another surgery was performed because the doctor suspected internal bleeding as the cause of his dropping blood pressure. Sure enough, he detected my friend's liver was slowly bleeding. A majority of his veins from his liver were slowly bleeding.

Later, CYM's kidneys started to fail due to lack of blood flowing to the kidney. Then failed totally and the doctor had to order dialysis.

Somehow, to cut the story short, he died within hours later. I'm so sorry for his entire family. Especially his frail mother whom his family members said did not know how to break the sad news to. I just hope his mom would take the news calmly.

Yesterday too saw another friend,LSF, a girl, entered a mental asylum due to double personality. As her old self, she would be pleasant and gentle. Once another personality take over, she would become very aggressive and violent. She would even beat up her boss! Something in the fantasy of some of us. Right?

All's not that bad when I stumbled upon a long lost friend, YYS. At the same hospital where my first friend had his surgery. His wife bore him a baby girl. His second child. Both girls.

And while in the hospital too, I've received another news of yet another friend who delivered a baby boy this time, at another hospital. So yesterday was an eventful day for me.

Strangulated Feeling, the poem, now, the Video!

A few posts below, or here, I posted that The Best Websites Around sent me a poem via email, of a physically disabled friend, who was in love with a girl, but whom dare not confess his love for her.

I've promised to make a video out of the poem and here it is, the poem titled a Strangulation Feeling.

Being physically challenged is not a sin. They have their rights too, and a place for living. And that includes love. They have a right to love and be loved. Rather to suffer in silence, its better to express your love. Yeah, the fear of losing her is great. Its better to not have her love than entirely not have her as a friend anymore, you may reason. At least, you'll still be a ble to see her from time to time.

But don't you think if you continue to live like this, you will suffer even more? The pain of yearning for someone but not being able to have them? To cut the pain short, confess. If she accept, its your dream come true. If not, move on. Its easier to handle than you think.

But then, its only my humble opinion. Do what you deem best for yourself.

Meanwhile, enjoy the video.


Strangulated Feeling - Watch more funny videos here

If You Love Someone . . .

Received this e-mail from a friend, Kevin. Thanks, bud! Now, I've something for my blog :)

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous…
then it’s not love…it’s – Infatuation

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because
others think that you shouldn’t..then it’s not love…it’s – Compromise

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live without his touch…
then it’s not love…it’s – Lust

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Inferiority Complex

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings…
then it’s not love… it’s – Charity

If you love someone because you share every thing with him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Friendship

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable, and you cry for him, that's -LOVE!

Maxence, a young French singer

Introducing....Maxence, a talented singer from Paris, and is only 13 years of age. He was 12 when he sang the song (Please view embedded video).

The song is written by Anthony Johnson from UK. I love to expose talented people to encourage them to perform even better and better. Here's the video. Enjoy! Translated lyrics at the bottom of video.



V1:
Ooh, I sit here all alone
No-one to hear my distress
I feel so abandoned

And you, do you ever feel it too?
The innocence and recklessness
Give way to the suffering

CHORUS:
Another day, another night
I'll wait forever
Until you come here

V2:
Yesterday, to me, seems so far away
All those games we played
Seem to fade awy

MIDDLE PART:
I cling to my memories
That fill my heart
And help me to cope
There is too much love I have to share
then I see that nobody is there
Just my thoughts of the past
the fear visits me once again

CHORUS:
Another day, another night
I'll wait forever
Until you come here

ENGLISH PART:
I just wait here every day
I just wait here every night
There's no sense in what I do
I just sit and wait for you
To take me home

Take me home
Take me home
Take me home

Strangulated Feeling

The Best Websites Around messaged me and this is what she wrote:-

Hi, I would like to submit a love poem to you so that you can post it on your site. The resembles your blogpost "Life is short" to some extent. Let me know how can i send the poem to you. Thanx for your nice blog. Keep it up.

Of course I'll post it on my blog if its good. A day later, I received an email from her. This is the content of the email:-

Dear Friend,

The Poem that I want to submit is written by close friend who doesn't want to disclose his name. He is actually Physically disable & is in love. So he has written the poem.

The poem is about a Secret Feeling which he can't express to his near & dear ones and even to my beloved. The Poem is as follows:

STRANGULATED FEELING

A secret feeling I can’t express,

Without expressing I can’t repress

To express it is really hard

While repressing it- I’ve become a bard.

Wanna express my love to her all the time

But it’s so hard to express even a single time.

Don’t know the way to vent my love

The only hope is God above.

There is no medium, no outlet

To call my love for a simple date,

Can’t say my love to my love,

Though she is gentle like a dove.

Social bounds- so hard to break

So many barriers- tough nut to crack

Circumstances- never went my way

Could see the hope just fading away

All because I have no right

For I’m disable, I have no might.

I'm sorry for your disabled friend. I don't know what disability he suffers. But I feel he should not look down on himself merely because he is physically challenged.

Physically challenged people have rights to love and to be loved, to make friends and have a normal social life. In order for people to accept us, we must first accept ourselves. In order for people to love us, we must also firstly love ourselves.

As I've promised, I'll make a video out of this poem. Hope your friend will love it. Stay tuned!
Please give me some time to make the video. I want to make this video a good one!

Marie Antoinette Award

Tripzibit presented me with the Marie Antoinette Award. This is his second award to me. How sweet! Thanks again!

“Queen Marie Antoinette is the epitome of a real, fun, fearless woman who is never afraid of getting what she wants”

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