If You Love Someone . . .

Received this e-mail from a friend, Kevin. Thanks, bud! Now, I've something for my blog :)

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous…
then it’s not love…it’s – Infatuation

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because
others think that you shouldn’t..then it’s not love…it’s – Compromise

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live without his touch…
then it’s not love…it’s – Lust

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Inferiority Complex

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings…
then it’s not love… it’s – Charity

If you love someone because you share every thing with him…
then it’s not love…it’s – Friendship

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable, and you cry for him, that's -LOVE!

How To Know When It's Love

Found this piece of article on the web. And decides to publish it here because some of the advices are what I'm using. What irony!


You feel very strongly for another person and want to know if what you're feeling is the real deal. Ask yourself these difficult questions.

Here's How:

1. Ask yourself: 'Would I be willing to let her/him go if I believed it was the best thing?'
2. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to wait for this person if s/he is not ready to have sex?'
3. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he gained weight?'
4. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true?'
5. Ask yourself: 'Do I respect and admire her/him?'
6. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he got sick?'
7. Ask yourself: 'If you two were in an argument, would you feel the same way?'
8. If you answered 'No' to any of these questions, think about why you gave that answer. Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it selfishness? Do you need more time to get to know each other?
9. If you answered 'Yes' to all of these questions, wow, you feel very strongly about this person. It sounds like you're in love!